Staying Curious and Staying Happy

I think now more than ever, it’s so easy to lose sight of the femininity that so many of us naturally gravitate toward. Being in school, it’s easy to get caught up in the grind, putting on a straight face, checking off tasks, and moving through the day without thinking twice. And in doing that, I found myself losing touch with the things I truly care about, like this blog and writing about fashion.

But lately, that urge for ultra-feminine expression has resurged in me, and I felt like I had to share it. Maybe it's because being a part of relationships/friendships, it can be easy to lose sight of your goals and the things that make you happy. More than that, I want this to be a reminder for anyone reading to take that extra 20 minutes to do something you love, the hobby, the passion, the little thing you’ve been putting off because of work or school. Life is way too short to go through the motions without love for what you’re doing. And if something no longer serves you? Nothing is stopping you from letting it go and exploring something new

That’s the mindset I’ve been trying to adopt, not just in my style but in everything. I was recently told I’m "curious to a fault." At first, I saw it as a negative, but the more I thought about it, the more grateful I felt. Curiosity means I’m open to learning, to new experiences, to seeing the world with fresh eyes. It’s a good thing. Whether it’s curiosity in relationships, personal growth, or trying out new hobbies, I truly believe it makes you a more well-rounded person.

In relationships, curiosity is key. It helps you learn more about your partner, understand who they are, and appreciate the way they see the world. Because being curious means you care about them, about yourself, about life. Once you stop being curious, you stop learning, and when you stop learning, you stop growing. And there is always room to grow, no matter what stage of life you’re in.

Recently, my roommate has been on a whole different wavelength, looking at everything through a positive lens. It reminded me of a book my aunt once recommended to me: The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor. As someone who often sidelines their mental health in pursuit of goals, this book was a great reminder that happiness isn’t a luxury; it’s an advantage. Happier people naturally succeed more, and when you stop looking at your daily life as a chore, everything starts to feel lighter.

This realization got me thinking… how often do we prioritize joy in our daily routines? What if we allowed ourselves to indulge in the small things that bring happiness, even amidst responsibilities? Maybe that’s taking a walk without headphones, dressing up just because, or, in my case, writing for the sake of expression rather than productivity. These small choices shape our outlook and, ultimately, our lives. To leave you with one last thought, make time for the things that bring you back to yourself. Whether it's journaling, grabbing your favorite coffee, reading, going for a walk, or painting, find what grounds you and makes you feel like you. It’s easy to get caught up in routines and responsibilities, but carving out space for the things you genuinely enjoy isn’t just important; it’s so necessary. It's a change I'm learning myself!

What’s The Catch?

Finding balance between your passions and responsibilities.
Reminding yourself that you always have a few extra minutes to do something you love :)